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When Your Loved One Is Addicted
Common thinking is that addicts are in denial, won't change on their own, abstinence is the goal, AA and rehab are THE answer. Think again.


When Your Loved One WON’T Change
What do you do when you’ve tried everything to get your loved one to stop their infuriating behavior — and nothing has worked?


Want Your Loved One To Change? Stop Criticizing
If you can ask your loved one to change without it sounding like a criticism, you'll get better results.


ADHD and Narcissism…Or Something Else Entirely?
You may be convinced you have a mental health disorder. Don’t be too eager to accept a diagnosis.


Did You Marry A Sociopath? (Sorry, But No)
Maybe you think that your spouse is a sociopath, or borderline, or a narcissist. But maybe you should think again.


Experience Is What You Get When You Didn’t Get What You Wanted
Life is full of disappointments. But a change of mindset can take the sting away.


Six Steps to Improve Your Communication and Achieve Greater Intimacy
Learning how to listen to each other can improve our relationships. Here are six things to do that will help you in that quest.


How Good People Do Bad Things: Cognitive Dissonance and Self Image
It’s a shock to find that someone we know to be a good person has done something bad. Psychology has an explanation.


Turning Fights Into Gold (Part II): Conflict and Attachment in Couples
The ability to fight well is one of the hallmarks of successful relationships.


Turning Fights Into Gold (Part I): Conflict and Attachment in Couples
Our fights with our romantic partner may appear to be about trivial things. But the question at the root of every fight is “Are you there f
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