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Finding an English-Speaking Counsellor in Hong Kong: A How-To Guide

When a friend has a problem, we often try to comfort them or help them fix it. Sometimes that’s exactly the wrong thing to do.

Lots of people on dating apps behave badly. Here’s why.

Many of us pretend to be doing fine when we’re actually feeling awful. Keeping up appearances has a terrible cost.

When couples counsellors buy into the narrative clients use to explain their troubles, therapy doesn’t end well.

Your romantic partner may annoy you in many small ways — but don’t give up. The world of animal training can help.

We often think we know why our romantic partner behaves the way they do — and we’re usually wrong. That's why we need to talk about feelings

Using our partner’s behavior to deduce their intentions and motivation is natural. Natural, but dangerous.

Valentine’s Day may be blissful…but there’s usually a little voice asking “Will this relationship last?” Here's how to stop that voice.

What do you do when you’ve tried everything to get your loved one to stop their infuriating behavior — and nothing has worked?

If you can ask your loved one to change without it sounding like a criticism, you'll get better results.