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Death and Denial: Why We Try To Blame The VictimPeople often ask insensitive questions at the news of someone’s untimely death. Do we really need to know if the deceased was overweight, sm
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Envy, Competition and Friendship — Feeling Better About Ourselves Despite Our “Bad” FeelingsWe sometimes feel envious and competitive toward friends and family. Society frowns on this, so we try our best to squash these feelings.
Eight Things You Should (And Shouldn't) Say: Communication, Friendship And Better RelationshipsAre we really being as supportive and helpful to our friends as we could be? Is there friction that seems to come from nowhere? Here are s