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July 6, 2019

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June 22, 2019

Using our partner’s behavior to deduce their intentions and motivation is natural. Natural, but dangerous.

April 18, 2019

Hong Kong pop star Andy Hui’s betrayal of his wife Sammi Cheng rocked the city. How can they — and other couples who’ve been through similar things — begin to recover?

January 26, 2019

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December 1, 2018

What do you do when you’ve tried everything you can think of to get your loved one to stop their infuriating behavior — and nothing has worked?

November 17, 2018

When you ask your loved one to change, there’s usually at least a hint of criticism in the request. Removing that criticism can make a world of difference.

October 20, 2018

Maybe you think that your spouse is a sociopath, or borderline, or a narcissist. But maybe you should think again.

October 6, 2018

Learning how to listen to each other can improve our relationships. Here are six things to do that will help you in that quest.

September 22, 2018

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Finding an English-Speaking Counsellor in Hong Kong: A How-To Guide

October 23, 2017

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Tim Hoffman 

M.A. Mental Health Counselling

Psychotherapy in Hong Kong

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